Humor & Health Hangouts start with prevention focus
By Cal Samra
Editor, The Joyful Noiseletter
This special issue of JN is devoted to introducing to churches a rather
unique concept – Humor & Health Hangouts that will meet monthly
in a church or homes and give people lots of good reasons to laugh and
be of good cheer.
The Humor & Health Hangouts (aka 3-H clubs) will have a holistic
approach to health with a focus on prevention and helping people to
strive to be both spiritually and physically fit.
The groups will give people lots of good reasons to laugh: clean
humor, inspirational humor, rib-tickling cartoons, the joy of salvation,
the joy of the resurrection…
Healthy lifestyles
But the groups will stress that healing humor is just one part – an
important part – of a healthy lifestyle, which includes good nutrition,
regular exercise, the stewardship of the body, prayer, and worship.
The editors of The Joyful Noiseletter are proposing that churches host
these groups’ monthly meetings in fellowship halls or in members’ homes.
Anyone would be welcome to come to these ecumenical meetings.
JN consulting editor Rev. Dr. Karl R. Kraft, who has designed and led
13 consecutive Holy Humor Sunday services on the Sunday after Easter,
plans to start a Humor & Health Hangout at First Methodist Church in
Glassboro, NJ.
Rev. Dr. Bert Coffman is starting another group at the Church of the
Good Shepherd in Grafton, WV, and Rev. Barbara Bartholomew of First
Presbyterian Church in Minerva, OH, is starting a group. The groups
will meet monthly, and the pastors expect many other churches to follow
their lead.
Dr. Richard Bimler of Bloomingdale, IL, who is Ambassador of Health, Hope, and
Aging for Lutheran Life Communities, wrote, "I really like the idea
of Humor & Health Hangouts. A Lutheran church in northern
Illinois is considering hosting a group. We might consider establishing these groups in the Lutheran senior living facilities
that are scattered all over the country."
Baptist Chaplain Jack Hinson of Waynesville, NC, wrote:
"I think the Humor & Health Hangouts will be a big hit. I am serving
as the interim pastor at a local church and expect to start a group
there in 2011." Chaplain Jack served as a hospital chaplain for 14 years.
Another excellent resource for a group is Chaplain Jack's new
book, Laughter Was God's Idea: Stories about Healing Humor
(available from JN's online bookstore.)
Group guidelines
The guidelines and resources for formation of a Humor & Health Hangout
were prepared with the assistance of Dr. Kraft, Evelyn Kraft, Dr.
Coffman, Rev. Dr. Lee van Rensburg of Stroudsburg, PA, JN corporate
attorney Gordon C. Miller of Kalamazoo, and JN editor Rose Samra.
Churches can use Holy Humor Sunday celebrations as models for the
monthly Humor & Health Hangouts. For 15 years, JN has piled up
evidence that Holy Humor Sunday celebrations are healing, and they
work! They bring together divided parishioners and help people cope
with their ailments and hard times.
After experiencing a Holy Humor Sunday service, many people have
asked, “Why can’t we do this more often?”
Why not? If that is what
churchgoers want, and if that is
what attracts young people, the
unchurched, and people of all ages
to church, why not give it to them?
Americans are now confronted by
a massive and staggering health care
crisis as people desperately seek
affordable health care. Churches
have a moral responsibility to do
their part in health education and
prevention.
‘A terrible loneliness’
Studies have shown that loneliness
is the Number One fear of many
people. When Mother Teresa came
to America, she observed a “terrible
loneliness” among many people,
mainly because of the widespread
breakdown of both the nuclear and
extended family. Extensive
computerized social networking
hasn’t mitigated this loneliness.
Patch Adams, M.D., another JN
contributor, has observed that this
terrible loneliness can cause illness
and depression and make it more
difficult for people to recover from
illnesses.
Churches need to address this
problem, and to help people build
extended families of friends, as Patch
Adams has suggested. Humor &
Health Hangouts will help do that.
Why not give people a place
where they can regularly meet,
relax, have fun, and make new
friends? Even exercise is most
beneficial when you’re having fun.
These groups will be autonomous,
under the kindly auspices of the
church pastor. Why not consider
starting a monthly group in your
church? JN subscribers could take
the lead in organizing a group in
their church or home. Why not
discuss it with your pastor?
Many enlightened medical
doctors and hospital chaplains who
subscribe to JN as well as health
insurance companies are sure to
support these groups.
Free-of-charge
We recommend that there be no
charge to persons who attend the
group’s meetings. A “Love & Laughter
Offering” might be requested to
cover the cost of refreshments or a
modest speaker’s fee.
The groups would be well-advised
to avoid contentious subjects like
theology, politics, and psychobabble
– nothing serious. (Save the theology
for Sunday services and Sunday
school.) The groups’ only aim is to
share healing laughter, have fun,
and encourage healthy lifestyles.
The groups should simply promote
an affirmation and celebration of
life.
Good humor is a bridge-building
and peacemaking tool. People just
can’t laugh and fight at the same time.
People are hurting big-time in
many ways these days. Let’s give
people lots of reasons to laugh. Give
them faith. Give them laughter.
Didn’t Jesus tell us to “be of good
cheer?” Let’s show people that the
Christian faith has a lot of good
humor, good cheer, and joy to offer
– even in hard times – and we’re not
just a crowd of whiners and grouches.
You want people to come to your
church? Try it. You’ll like it.
Guidelines/resources for Humor & Health Hangouts
Every group will be entirely autonomous and likely will develop its
own programs but here are some guidelines and resources for your
consideration:
- Begin each meeting with “The Clown’s Prayer,” which JN consulting
editors Don (“Ski”) Berkoski and his wife, Ruby (“Tah-Dah”) Berkoski,
founders of Smiles Unlimited, a clown ministry to hospitals, nursing
homes, and prisons, contributed to JN:
“Lord, as I stumble through this life, help me to create more laughter
than tears, dispense more happiness than gloom, spread more cheer than
despair. Never let me become so indifferent that I will fail to see the
wonder in the eyes of a child or the twinkle in the eyes of the aged.
“Never let me forget that my total effort is to cheer people, make them
happy and forget at least for a moment all the unpleasant things in their
lives. And, Lord, in my final moment, may I hear You whisper: ‘When you
made My people smile, you made Me smile.’”
- Encourage people to bring their favorite joke or funny story. BYOJ –
“Bring your own joke” – but keep it clean and avoid put-down jokes.
- You can use JN’s treasury of holy humor – 25 years of clean jokes,
upbeat humor, and cartoons in our newsletter and in many humor books
featured in JN’s catalog through the years or recommended by JN. If you’ve
kept back issues of JN, either paper or electronic, you’ve already got plenty
of resources.
The four Holy Humor/Holy Hilarity series of best-selling books
copublished by JN covered the best jokes and cartoons from the first 10
years of JN. Another publisher will be publishing over the next three years
some of the best jokes and cartoons from the last 15 years of JN.
- You can also use the extensive materials in the free guidebook to Holy
Humor Sunday celebrations on JN’s web site.. Just
click on “Holy Humor Sunday” for a bonanza of good humor.
- We’ve discovered that every church, whatever its faith tradition, has
gifted humorists, comedians, clowns, magicians, ventriloquists, writers,
poets, singers, musicians, pastors, and chaplains. Many of them have
authored books. Why not use their many talents? Why not invite them to
perform or talk to your group?
- There are numerous DVD’s and CD’s by Christian comedians that can
be shown or played at club meetings. They are available at many Christian
bookstores, or online. Just be sure you have permission to use them in
church.
- Choir directors and ministers of music can recommend many joyful
Christian songs – and even humorous songs – that can be sung at club
meetings.
- Laughter may be the best medicine, but the clubs also should
encourage healthy lifestyles, including good nutrition, regular exercise, and
participation in sports within a person’s limitations. (Methodism’s John
Wesley focused on prevention in his preaching, and relentlessly urged
pastors and parishioners to strive to be both spiritually and physically fit.)
- Many prevention-minded medical doctors, nurses, and health
professionals support JN’s ministry. Spiritually-enlightened doctors, nurses,
nutritionists, and physical trainers could be invited to speak to the club.
- Some churches have hung a large print of “The Risen Christ by the Sea”
in their fellowship halls. A painting of a smiling, joyful, triumphant Risen
Christ in the fellowship hall would set a joyful tone for club meetings.
- Be hospitable. Welcome everyone and anyone – believers and
unbelievers – to the group’s meetings.
It’s time to celebrate our own resurrections
When the Fellowship of Merry
Christians was organized 25
years ago, we received this message
from Rev. Dr. Lloyd John Ogilvie, an
eminent Presbyterian pastor who
was then the U.S. Senate Chaplain:
“God bless you in your ministry
to bring joy and good cheer into the
lives of Christians.”
Shortly afterwards, The Joyful Noiseletter carried this quote about
“resurrection living” from Dr.
Ogilvie’s book, Enjoying God under
the headline “Easter Every Hour”:
“The Lord’s intervening, resurrection
power is given not only for
life’s impossible problems, but also
for our immense opportunities.
There’s always a time when we get
to the end of our strength and
courage and have to surrender the
future of a plan, project, or program.
“Out of the grave of our depleted
efforts, the Lord gives fresh vision,
insight, and answers we had not
conceived of before. Easter happens
again. For resurrection living there
is resurrection power.
“This is Easter every hour, not a
temporary fix, but an intravenous
feeding of love and hope from
Christ’s heart to ours. This is
living! This is enjoying God!”
According to Webster’s New World
Dictionary, the word resurrection,
when capitalized, as in The
Resurrection, refers to the “rising of
Jesus from the dead, or the rising of
all the dead as of the Last Judgment.”
But resurrection (lower case) can
also simply mean “a rising from the
dead, or coming back to life” or “a
coming back into notice, practice,
use, etc.”
Dyings and risings
In our lifetimes, we all experience
from time to time small “deaths”
(from illness, injuries, accidents, the
loss of loved ones, depression, et al.)
Example: you get the flu and you
feel like you’re dying. You recover
in a few days, sometimes with and
sometimes without a doctor’s help.
You come alive again. That is one
kind of resurrection.
But we all experience small
Easters when the Lord raises us back
to life in this lifetime. We are
resurrected – long before The
Resurrection – with the help of a
variety of human instruments –
medical help, pastoral counseling,
prayer, nutritional help, the humor
of clowns and comedians, et al.
There are numerous forms of
resurrection in this life before The
Resurrection. We all have our little
Good Fridays and our little Easters.
There is an old tradition in early
Eastern Christianity that Lazarus
laughed heartily for years after
Jesus raised him from the dead, and
Lazarus’ home in Bethany was
called “the House of Laughter.”
The Humor & Health Hangouts
will enable us to celebrate our little
resurrections in this lifetime and
thank and praise God, the author of
all resurrections.
Christians have been called “Easter
people” for centuries. Are we?
Many insurance companies are
offering a free pedometer as a help
towards developing preventative
healthy lifestyles and are encouraging
friendly competitions among churches
and conferences, reports Rev. Dr.
Lee van Rensburg of Stoudsburg,
PA. The pedometer helps a person
check their steps each day and set a
reasonable personal goal.
Please let JN know if you
plan to start a Humor & Health
Hangout in your church or
private home. Contact us at
JoyfulNZ@aol.com or at The Joyful Noiseletter, P.O. Box 895,
Portage, MI 49081-0895.